tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post1931205117821595524..comments2024-03-20T01:42:15.078-06:00Comments on Adrienne Graves - Life with Intention: Adriennehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04101665341916407243noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-88768058920905823852007-03-01T14:37:00.000-07:002007-03-01T14:37:00.000-07:00I feel compelled to comment on almost all of your ...I feel compelled to comment on almost all of your blogs, but this one truly jumped out at me. My first daughter, Sarah, died suddenly and unexpectedly at 1 1/2 days. Years later after research, genetic counseling, grief counseling, and much prayer, we decided to conceive again. When we found out we were pregnant with a healthy baby BOY, I (shamefully) was relieved not only for the perfect health, but that he is a boy. Fast forward five years - we became pregnant and found out two days after Sarah's fifth birthday that we were to have a baby girl. The rest of my pregnancy I refused to believe God would actually bless me with a healthy baby girl. I was scared and shocked. I didn't prepare for her; no readied room, no sweet clothes (only her sister's hung in her closet), not even a full name. I had all the doubts and then some...But now, five and a half months later, I love Gracie with all my heart and soul. I know she is God's blessing in my life and I am at peace with my feelings. I still miss Sarah everyday and think of her probably that often. Much like you I have different visions of her, but I know Gracie is Gracie and I am so glad we decided to "try" again and again. Hopefully God will have it in his will to bless you again as he has us. We are praying for you, grieving with you, and listening to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-10845759024996062952007-02-12T10:25:00.000-07:002007-02-12T10:25:00.000-07:00Oh, I so hear your heart. You don't know me and li...Oh, I so hear your heart. You don't know me and likely never will ... but 9 years ago I laid my 10 week old son before the Lord and blessed him back into God's care. There's a lot I would love to tell you about what I went through between that time and the time I gave birth to my daughter ... and since. However, I'll just say to you that in God's time I realized that he had allowed MY heart to be broken so that he could expand it. What the Lord did with me through loving and losing Benjamin, could not have been accomplished any other way. The Lord really did use for good what the enemy meant for evil...what an encouragement to us. I love more and deeper today and while He only chose to bless me with one child to raise, he has expanded my heart for children (and for their Mommies)immeasureably. Today they are my ministry in prayer. I am praying for you. Bless you as you step through this fire ... Jesus is there with you ... and with me .... We will never, NEVER forget our little boys, nor should we ... but we will love ... truly, madly, deeply ... in His time. May you be "crowned in peace" as you wait.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-83310550619823202342007-02-09T20:28:00.000-07:002007-02-09T20:28:00.000-07:00I am truly inspired with each entry you write. You...I am truly inspired with each entry you write. You are such a strong person, and a great woman and mom. I know Noah is smiling down on you from Heaven.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-40843010597134422282007-02-09T10:30:00.000-07:002007-02-09T10:30:00.000-07:00I spent yesterday reading your blog and weeping! ...I spent yesterday reading your blog and weeping! The grace the Lord has poured on you is astounding and I know it is He alone who has comforted and knitted your hearts so deeply with His own. I can tell you know our Father intimately and that He is working mightily in your lives! Know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers as you continue to glorify His holy name.<BR/><BR/>Only Because of HIs Grace,<BR/>AmyWatered Springhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13485668975493363054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-19268107169885566022007-02-09T08:14:00.000-07:002007-02-09T08:14:00.000-07:00Our God is a God who loves, loves, loves life. I ...Our God is a God who loves, loves, loves life. I pray that someday it may be possible for you to nurture another beautiful soul for the Lord. As a mother we are able to love our children very much as God loves all of his children--it is a gift and it is by grace alone that we may love as many as we receieve. What a testament to Noah and the Lord if you are able to bring forth new life out of such sorrow. God Bless YouAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-66933962571420682902007-02-08T23:51:00.000-07:002007-02-08T23:51:00.000-07:00i don't know your family, i'm just very good frien...i don't know your family, i'm just very good friends with friends of yours. but i want to say that i check the blog almost every day and have shared it with all my friends via email. as a result, the people i least expected to read are the very people who do. as a result the door for sharing the Lord has swung wide open. now if i just have the guts to walk through it, can you imagine what your story will do?!!! thanks, many, many thanks!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-46904060663432661672007-02-08T22:30:00.000-07:002007-02-08T22:30:00.000-07:00Ah, the big question.And you and He are the only o...Ah, the big question.<BR/>And you and He are the only ones with the answer.<BR/>Just wanted to let you know that I'm still here.<BR/>Your families faces are burned into my mind and they are the faces of Jesus.<BR/>Thanks for being him to so many.<BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>Angela<BR/>ps - my ear still hurts, does yours?<BR/>pss - I know a cute senior editor, should you need any help with your book :)Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07760798269520232187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-90911918105208399832007-02-08T21:31:00.000-07:002007-02-08T21:31:00.000-07:00How BEAUTIFUL it is... not the pictures (though th...How BEAUTIFUL it is... not the pictures (though they are lovely) but your soul. I have followed your story for some time now and felt drawn to send you my love more than ever today. <BR/><BR/>I feel like God Himself led me here after my daughter was sick. Lindsey only spent a month in the hospital, but we are reminded of her disease and it's effects daily. She turned 5 months old a few days ago and is starting to slip behind developmentally. I find it all overwhelming at times and feel as though I am drowning.<BR/><BR/>At the begining of all of this, I felt as though I was battling God to keep her. If it was a war of wills He wanted, He'd found a worthy opponent... while I never lost my faith, I couldn't help but feel betrayed by Him. <BR/><BR/>The unfaltering love and trust that you have is inspiring. You've become a shining beacon that absorbs everyone who happens across Noah's story. Thank you for taking us along on his journey. It's been a wonderful reminder that we should all love, trust, and follow him blindly. And that, is a beautiful thing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-46437591012758410172007-02-08T19:49:00.000-07:002007-02-08T19:49:00.000-07:00Adrienne~ It truly has not been that long since No...Adrienne~ <BR/><BR/>It truly has not been that long since Noah was officially crowned in peace. Please give yourself some time - you do not have to decided imminently to have another child. <BR/>Know that you are on our hearts and in our prayers!Rmomof3https://www.blogger.com/profile/04107245987562194633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-63248343994726489022007-02-08T19:32:00.000-07:002007-02-08T19:32:00.000-07:00i'm sure you are amazingly busy - but if you could...i'm sure you are amazingly busy - but if you could fit in discipling a stay at home mom in indiana, i so want what you have.<BR/><BR/>ebugler@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-45950035015878237272007-02-08T18:42:00.000-07:002007-02-08T18:42:00.000-07:00WOW!!! This picture has to be one of my fav's!!!!...WOW!!! This picture has to be one of my fav's!!!! Of course they are all beautiful. I would agree with several of the other posts it would be a great cover!! I am anxiously awaiting the book, as many other of your faithful bloggers are. I will pray for your health situation. Em is such a sweet shining star herself and would make a great big sister, as you and Jason would make great parents again. Your family is so full of love, I understand your concern about wanting to find everything out about your health issues. I know God has a plan and will reveal it to you. Thank you for sharing yourself with us, I know I say that almost every time I post. But you have inspired me and I am glad you are my sister in Christ. <BR/>God Bless,<BR/>Kriskdwhorseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07927961715923751666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-25552380049473294632007-02-08T16:08:00.000-07:002007-02-08T16:08:00.000-07:00being pregnant after a loss, I can totally underst...being pregnant after a loss, I can totally understand those feelings... I am almost 20 weeks and have only recently had a day where I was excited... I don't consider this child a replacement, but it took me a while to realize the new pregnancy as a redemption, rather than a slap in the face... see the due dates are within days of each other, and we just found out this week that it's a girl...the same as we lost...<BR/><BR/>I am choosing to believe in the redemption of this pregnancy, tho sometimes it is still a battle. My Mind has been my worst enemy thru this whole thing... processing and over processing... it has sent me into a funk more times than I care to admit. <BR/><BR/>Emily is fine. There's no reason you couldn't have another healthy child. BUT, I understand the hesitancy in wanting to try... I wasn't sure I would ever be ready to have another one, and am only depending on God that He did the right thing in allowing this pregnancy.<BR/><BR/>NOt sure if any of that helped at all...we're not in the "same" situation, and I in no way think I can speak to your pain or confusion. There's no fix for it, except to stay close to God, and we all know you are a pro at that.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for showing your vulnerable side, too, Adrienne... I have to admit, your strength has shamed me on many occasions... Immediately after our loss I felt closer to God than I had ever in my life...and then I allowed the pain to overtake me. I am not sure I have recovered yet. But I know He is doing something. (sorry this is so long!!)Shanygnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05681467887398076390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-47027947189256711462007-02-08T14:02:00.000-07:002007-02-08T14:02:00.000-07:00I don't mean to post too much here but I just want...I don't mean to post too much here but I just wanted to point out Lisa's post and say that I too think the latest photo would be a perfect cover for your book. <BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>Mandy77Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-77136947355273574842007-02-08T13:49:00.000-07:002007-02-08T13:49:00.000-07:00I agree - the pictures are all just breath-taking....I agree - the pictures are all just breath-taking. <BR/><BR/>God gave you such peace about letting Noah go, I can't imagine that He would not give you that same peace about growing your family when the time/ circumstance is right. <BR/><BR/>Still praying for you! And still reaping the personal spiritual rewards of you sharing your journey. Thank you Noah!weavermomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05775825441858350484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-56460359888321986052007-02-08T13:34:00.000-07:002007-02-08T13:34:00.000-07:00Adrienne -Your picture is just beautiful. Thank y...Adrienne -<BR/>Your picture is just beautiful. <BR/><BR/>Thank you for sharing Noah's story with us. The first time I read it I went home that night and hugged my daughter a little tighter and let her stay up a little later so I could cuddle with her just a little longer. <BR/><BR/>I find myself coming to your blog every day hoping to get one more glimps of Noah, Em, Jason & you. I find myself sitting at my desk after I read another post crying - Noah's story is so touching, your faith in God is just amazing and the love you have for each other is....I can't seem to put into words what I want to say, its just beautiful.<BR/><BR/>I will continue to pray for your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-44631222082354272252007-02-08T13:33:00.000-07:002007-02-08T13:33:00.000-07:00Adrienne-You have given all of us so much. If the...Adrienne-<BR/>You have given all of us so much. If there is anything we can do for you and your family please tell us. We could never give you as much as you given all of us, but there are many of us that would like to help somehow. Please tell us what we can do!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-7441282971558037482007-02-08T12:38:00.000-07:002007-02-08T12:38:00.000-07:00Adrienne,First, I haven't had the chance to post h...Adrienne,<BR/><BR/>First, I haven't had the chance to post how blessed I was to finally meet you in person when you were in S.D. for a short time. Those of us at Four Square were so blessed to hear both your and Jason's heart. Thank You!<BR/><BR/>Secondly, I like others experienced the loss of two babies to miscarriage. The first before we even came to the saving knowledge of Christ 13 years ago, and the second one 4 years ago. I won't say that I didn't feel a sense of loss or pain ( because believe it or not, your blog has given me a better understanding to the why's) I too want to encourage you that if and when God decides to send another blessing to you. You'll know His perfect will and timing. You have always displayed that through this journey and others I'm sure. Let me add though, God showed us His redeeming love and gave us two beautiful daughters after taking our two little angels home to be with Him. Not once have I ever thought of them as a replacement, but a beautiful gift that I valued even more (if that's possible?!?!) Noah's legacy will never change, he'll never be replaced or forgotten, that I'm certain of, reguardless of what the future holds for your family.<BR/><BR/>Lastly, I'm casting my vote on the latest picture to be the cover of your book. It is absolutely breath taking!! Can't wait for the release!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-80953565854169046372007-02-08T10:49:00.000-07:002007-02-08T10:49:00.000-07:00I have spoken to you via e-mail, and now I thought...I have spoken to you via e-mail, and now I thought I would leave a comment on your site. I come here every day to see if there are any new blogs posted. Each blog is so incredibly inspirational. I absolutely love this picture of you and Noah. I love all of the pictures. Yours is an amzing journey. When speaking of a new baby, although absolutely no one can understand what you are feeling unless they have walked in your shoes, I, as I am sure you do, find peace in God. When it is your time, when God knows and believes your family is ready for another little one, it will be. You, and your family seem so loving, another child would be ever so blessed to have you guys as parents, and Em as a big sister, and Noah as a big brother. Noah, although he walks with our Lord in heaven now, will always be your son, Emily's younger brother, and if it is God's will, your next xhild's older brother. Noah will always be a part of your family, and a new baby would never change that. <BR/><BR/>I can't tell me how much your blog has inspired me. Since the first time reading through it, not a day has gone by that I don't come on and see if a new blog is posted, look at the pictures, and even re-read old blogs. Due to how much your writing, and your family has had an impact to touch so many, I think it is such a GREAT idea for your family to put a book out there. Not to monopolize on it, but just so that so many others can be touched and inspired. Your writing would connect so many people to the Lord, help so many other people that are out there that have been what your family has been through, and those who are going through it right now. God performs mircales in so many ways, and I feel one of little Noah's purposes here on this earth was to inspire others to have a relationship with the Lord. God bless you all!!! Just pray, and let all of your worries and concerns be in the hands of the Lord, he always takes care of us, and never fails us.<BR/><BR/>Love, <BR/>MaryDmary541https://www.blogger.com/profile/00367410747609783264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-33856471701603991242007-02-08T08:39:00.000-07:002007-02-08T08:39:00.000-07:00I came here this morning through another blog and ...I came here this morning through another blog and I've been reading now for over an hour. Your story has touched me deeply, like so many others. What has really gotten to me is that there is great hope and joy and peace and well, basically I came here and I have experienced the Spirit of God. The pictures are so beautiful. The video is mindblowing. Noah is so beautiful. God is blessed to have him in His arms even now. Your family is amazing. I could go on and on but what I really want to say is that God is so very good. He has spoken to me and I'm sure countless others through your words and images here. Thank you for sharing your heart for Him. I'll be back to see what He's up to.Candyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15472257745410066972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-67166238050641404972007-02-08T07:46:00.000-07:002007-02-08T07:46:00.000-07:00Giving God the Glory, even through life's storms, ...Giving God the Glory, even through life's storms, you are an encouragement to all. Noah is very precious, thank you for sharing him. I just read through your entire blog last night. I will be praying for you, you have touched my heart. My son, Jacob was born 1/16/96 and went to be with Jesus 2/20/96. My fear of death went with him as well. Praise God for these gifts, and for trusting us with them. At the time Jacob was born I also had a daughter, Ali, 16 months old. Jacob never came home from the hospital, he was unable to breath on his own. I have a box with just a few precious items under my bed, his prints and a piece of hair. I remember missing his smell. God blessed me with 2 more children after Jacob, Timothy(gift from Heaven) and Brittany. They are all 8 and up now. We celebrate Jacob's BDay every year and continue to display pictures in our home. We will forever be changed because of what God did through his precious and short life. "I will raise my hands, cause You are who You are...I will praise You in the storm!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-85323707114107965372007-02-08T07:31:00.000-07:002007-02-08T07:31:00.000-07:00After a friend told me about your blog, I can't se...After a friend told me about your blog, I can't seem to get away from it! You have touched my life and God has shown me so much. He is truly an Awesome God. Your little guy is still reaching people....this is amazing! Continue is his care...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-65033201734494981022007-02-08T07:22:00.000-07:002007-02-08T07:22:00.000-07:00Funny thing, the human heart...we never can put a ...Funny thing, the human heart...we never can put a guage on it. The depth is sooooooo very massive.To think it pails in comparrison to our Fathers, overwhelms me! <BR/><BR/>Those thoughts sound very normal to me,and they will probably come and go, but Adrienne you will love another child no doubt about it.(this is not a prohecy by the way) You exhibit the very heart of God and that is Love.<BR/><BR/>My prayers are with you no matter the journey you choose.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-59198363743734329072007-02-08T07:05:00.000-07:002007-02-08T07:05:00.000-07:00Stunning picture. I will pray for a peace that su...Stunning picture. I will pray for a peace that surpasses all understanding for your future family size issues. You are not wrong for having doubts, you are not wrong if you choose only one child, you are not wrong if you choose to have five more. God will lead you and he can provide the answers in ways we weren't even thinking about.Heidi Jo Comeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01503259742540607539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-1521167614080512272007-02-08T06:06:00.000-07:002007-02-08T06:06:00.000-07:00Thank you for another beautiful picture or two ver...Thank you for another beautiful picture or two very beautiful people.<BR/><BR/>As the mother of 4 children and 6 grandchildren I will tell you each is special and very different and our love for each is special and different but there is always more than enough love. <BR/><BR/>http://penlesswriter.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32529371.post-74094104907514722622007-02-08T01:38:00.000-07:002007-02-08T01:38:00.000-07:00As has been said - but I will say it again. God w...As has been said - but I will say it again. God will show you the way - so if you do fall pregnant again it will be God's will.<BR/><BR/>I am a mother of three children - and I love my three children to bits, however I love them all differently because they are individuals.<BR/><BR/>I have not had to experience what you have, but I believe that you will love your third, fourth, fifth, etc child as much as you love Emily and Noah.<BR/><BR/>I am not sure if you are familiar with Josh Groban, but I love his music and last night I thought of these two songs "To Where You Are" and "You Raise Me Up". So this morning I went and found the lyrics and thought that I would post them here for you as they give me strength for different reasons, but I thought that they are so appropriate in your moment.<BR/><BR/>Thank you again for sharing your story and your lovely, poignant photographs. Whenever I think that I am over the crying - I feel your next post and photograph and the tears start all over again.<BR/><BR/>Thank you also for helping me to rediscover my faith!<BR/><BR/>I end my comments with the lyrics and trust that you will find the same spiritual message that I have .... <BR/><BR/>"To Where You Are"<BR/><BR/>Who can say for certain<BR/>Maybe you're still here<BR/>I feel you all around me<BR/>Your memory's so clear<BR/><BR/>Deep in the stillness<BR/>I can hear you speak<BR/>You're still an inspiration<BR/>Can it be (?)<BR/>That you are mine<BR/>Forever love<BR/>And you are watching over me from up above<BR/><BR/>Fly me up to where you are<BR/>Beyond the distant star<BR/>I wish upon tonight<BR/>To see you smile<BR/>If only for awhile to know you're there<BR/>A breath away's not far<BR/>To where you are<BR/><BR/>Are you gently sleeping<BR/>Here inside my dream<BR/>And isn't faith believing<BR/>All power can't be seen<BR/><BR/>As my heart holds you<BR/>Just one beat away<BR/>I cherish all you gave me everyday<BR/>'Cause you are my<BR/>Forever love<BR/>Watching me from up above<BR/><BR/>And I believe<BR/>That angels breathe<BR/>And that love will live on and never leave<BR/><BR/>Fly me up<BR/>To where you are<BR/>Beyond the distant star<BR/>I wish upon tonight<BR/>To see you smile<BR/>If only for awhile<BR/>To know you're there<BR/>A breath away's not far<BR/>To where you are<BR/><BR/>I know you're there<BR/>A breath away's not far<BR/>To where you are<BR/><BR/>You Raise Me Up"<BR/><BR/>When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;<BR/>When troubles come and my heart burdened be;<BR/>Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,<BR/>Until you come and sit awhile with me.<BR/><BR/>You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;<BR/>You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;<BR/>I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;<BR/>You raise me up... To more than I can be.<BR/><BR/>You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;<BR/>You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;<BR/>I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;<BR/>You raise me up... To more than I can be.<BR/><BR/>You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;<BR/>You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;<BR/>I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;<BR/>You raise me up... To more than I can be.<BR/><BR/>You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;<BR/>You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;<BR/>I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;<BR/>You raise me up... To more than I can be.<BR/><BR/>You raise me up... To more than I can be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com